When children are born, they are not born with an idea of beauty,
so they enjoy their reflection in a mirror but unfortunately by time they get to primary school age and older they become susceptible to other people’s impression of them and the messages pushed at them no matter how subtle.
That happened to me and for too long a time, I accepted I had undesirable features and should just learn to live with it. This assumption affected my choices in life and no prizes for guessing those choices didn't serve me well.
When I had my daughter Siira, I didn't want her feeling like I did. I didn't want her loosing her childlike wonder and love for herself. So when the only black women she complemented all had straight hair I knew that was the beginning of loosing her unconditional self-love for herself. If she saw straight hair as the only hair that is worthy of compliments then it was only be a matter of time before she would wish that her hair was straight and how far would it go - wanting someone elses body, lips, eyes, eyelashes, talent, charisma? The list is endless and can be endless.
This is what makes it so important to teach our daughters to embrace their uniqueness and love every aspect of their image.
So Project Embrace was born because out of all the features that women have issues with the negative messages around afro hair go largely unoppossed.